I just received a copy of an email message written and distributed on
the internet by a person by the name of Gordon Mann
<mrfiresticks@msn.com. His message of hate and lack of caring is as
powerful as it is evil! I am sharing my reply below. Following my
reply you will find the original message. You may want to read what
Mr. Mann has written before reading my reply. JEC
RE: WHAT'S ALL THE FUSS? (see original email message below)
I am convinced beyond any doubt that "you don't care!" You made your
point loud and clear. In fact you made your point much more clearly
than you will ever know because it is obvious to most "normal"
people, i.e., people with a conscience, that you are a person without
the capacity for caring. That is very, very sad.
It is very, very sad because it is people like you who masterminded
the attacks on the World Trade Centers and the hotels in Sharm el-
Sheikh. It is very, very sad because it is people like you who lack
the capacity for caring that attacked the American Embassy in Nairobi
Kenya on the morning of August 7, 1998 in which 264 innocent people
died, all but 12 of whom were Kenyans and in which some 5,000 people
were injured including my friend Rosemary Bichage.


I want to tell you about Rosemary, not because you care, but because
I care! I care about every person who is killed or maimed by mindless
uncaring "true believers" whether the holy book they read be called
Koran or Quran, whether the holy book they read be called Torah, Old
Testament, New Testament, or Holy Bible. Or whether they read any
holy book or not. I care about every violation of the rights of
individuals not because they are protected by the U.S. Constitution
and the Bill of Rights but because they are human beings who should
be protected by the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.
But, back to Rosemary Bichage. On the morning of August 7, 1998,
Rosemary received a call at her desk on the fourth floor of the
Cooperative Bank Building in downtown Nairobi, where she was a senior
loan officer. Rosemary, a devout Catholic mother, left her office
long enough to pick up one of her twin daughters who was not feeling
well and take her home. She could not stay with her because she had
an important report that was due that day and she hurried back to her
office to complete it. At 10:37 A.M. she clicked on her computer and
that is the last thing she remembers for the next 4-1/2 months. You
see, the Cooperative Bank Building happened to be located adjacent to
the American Embassy in Nairobi and the force of the 2,000 pounds of
explosives destroyed the Bank Building. Rosemary was thrown out of
the window of her office and landed 4 floors below on burning debris.
Along with 3rd degree burns over 2/3 or more of her body, she had
suffered brain injury, a ruptured liver and spleen, a fractured leg,
and a broken elbow.
Late that night she was found on a gurney in a small hospital
unattended because triage had determined that she had no chance for
survival. Her husband was able to identify her only by the remnants
of the clothes and jewelry she had been wearing that day. Only
through his determination she was flown to Germany where she lay in a
German hospital in a coma for four months. When she came out of the
coma they brought her back to Kenya where it was determined that she
would be sent to the United States for special medical treatment.
That is how I came to know Rosemary. She was brought to Kansas City
where she has been for the past five years undergoing numerous
medical and surgical procedures including the amputation of one leg,
the complete reconstruction of her jaw plus treatment for a long list
of severe and life threatening internal injuries. When I met her she
was more concerned about her twin daughters than herself. You see,
Jeannette and Linda, her daughters were high school sophomores when
the attack occurred. They were honor students looking forward to the
day they would enter college. Their lives were also shattered on
August 7, 1998 by a person "who lacked the capacity for caring". I am
pleased to tell you that because most people in the world do have the
capacity to care, Jeannette and Linda will begin their senior year at
the University of Missouri-Kansas City this fall having maintained
Dean's Honor Roll grades for the past three years.
And Rosemary, in spite of all of the medical and surgical procedures
and rehab including brain damage, is half way through a master's
degree in Social Work and hopes to return to Kenya to work with women
in the country she loves. And yes, Rosemary has the capacity for
caring. When she appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show she told Oprah
that "Giving up is like telling God, You were wrong in giving me a
second chance in life."
It is because most people have the capacity for caring that I
established the Bichage Scholarship Fund at the First Option Bank, PO
Box 458, Louisburg, Kansas 66053 where people who care are sending
their contributions to help Rosemary and her daughters recover from
the trauma of an attack by someone who lacked the capacity to care.
Yesterday, July 27, Rosemary and Jeannette spoke to our Rotary Club
in Louisburg to thank them for their support over the past four
years. I know it is too much to hope for, but just perhaps if
somewhere deep down inside there is still a small capacity for caring
that has been allowed to go dormant, you will consider sending a
contribution to the Bichage College Fund to help someone else whose
life will never be the same as a result of the actions of people who
"don't care at all." Maybe, just maybe, the simple act of sharing
with someone you have never met will awaken that dormant capacity for
caring.
May God forgive you for not caring!
Life must be very empty when lived without the capacity for caring
for others.
John
John E. Cleek, Ph.D., Moderator
http://www.abetterfutureforall.org/index.htm
201 N. 3rd St.
Louisburg, Kansas 66053
"What is it that the Lord asks of you? Only to act justly, to love
loyalty, to walk wisely before your God." Micah 6:8
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Original Message distributed widely on the Internet:
From: GORDON MANN [mailto:mrfiresticks@msn.com]
Sent: Friday, July 22, 2005 9:42 PM
Subject: What's all the fuss?
WHAT'S ALL THE FUSS?
"Are we fighting a war on terror or aren't we? Was it or was it not
started by Islamic people who brought it to our shores on September
11, 2001? Were people from all over the world, mostly Americans, not
brutally murdered that day, in downtown Manhattan, across the Potomac
from our nation's capitol and in a field in Pennsylvania? Did nearly
three thousand men, women and children die a horrible, burning or
crushing death that day, or didn't they?
And I'm supposed to care that a copy of the Koran was "desecrated"
when an overworked American soldier kicked it or got it wet? Well, I
don't. I don't care at all.
I'll start caring when Osama bin Laden turns himself in and repents
for incinerating all those innocent people on 9/11.
I'll care about the Koran when the fanatics in the Middle East start
caring about the Holy Bible, the mere possession of which is a crime
in Saudi Arabia.
I'll care when Abu Musab al-Zarqawi tells the world he is sorry for
hacking off Nick Berg's head while Berg screamed through his
gurgling, slashed throat.
I'll care when the cowardly so-called "insurgents" in Iraq come out
and fight like men instead of disrespecting their own religion by
hiding in mosques.
I'll care when the mindless zealots who blow themselves up in search
of nirvana care about the innocent children within range of their
suicide bombs.
I'll care when the American media stops pretending that their First
Amendment liberties are somehow derived from international law
instead of the United States Constitution's Bill of Rights.
I'll care when Clinton-appointed judges stop ordering my government
to release photos of the abuses at Abu Ghraib, which are sure to set
off the Islamic extremists just as Newsweek's lies did a few weeks ago.
In the meantime, when I hear a story about a brave marine roughing up
an Iraqi terrorist to obtain information, know this: I don't care.
When I see a fuzzy photo of a pile of naked Iraqi prisoners who have
been humiliated in what amounts to a college hazing incident, rest
assured that I don't care.
When I see a wounded terrorist get shot in the head when he is told
not to move because he might be booby-trapped, you can take it to the
bank that I don't care.
When I hear that a prisoner, who was issued a Koran and a prayer mat,
and fed "special" food that is paid for by my tax dollars, is
complaining that his holy book is being "mishandled," you can
absolutely believe in your heart of hearts that I don't care.
And oh, by the way, I've noticed that sometimes it's spelled "Koran"
and other times "Quran." Well, Jimmy Crack Corn and -- you guessed it
-- I don't care!"